How does one succeed in life?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Making more friends is a goal.

Has anyone ever participated in a gang bang and what was it like?

That's it for today.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How common is it for siblings to fight over their parents' inheritance money? What is the best way to handle this type of situation?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Why does Filipino culture dictate that parents should be treated as gods?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

At what point did you realize it was the right time to leave your job?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Ask yourself:

Can I fix a fridge leak myself, or should I call a pro?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Is it wise to SECRETLY expose a narcissist by telling others that he/she is a covert narcissist?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What are your darkest taboo confessions?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What was your best sex experience that still makes you horny?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What I need from you?

What's the most valuable lesson you've learned in life, and how has it impacted your journey so far?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What is the meanest thing your husband has said to you?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Have you ever accidentally found out that you were about to be fired?

Does not procrastinate.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why did my bipolar girlfriend split up with me?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

Can you write a short story with a twist ending?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What makes you think that former U.S. President Donald Trump's legal team has already been laying the groundwork for an appeal in the hush money trial?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.